{"id":3723,"date":"2014-01-14T13:11:40","date_gmt":"2014-01-14T12:11:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pender.org.uk\/?p=3723"},"modified":"2018-01-27T21:46:22","modified_gmt":"2018-01-27T20:46:22","slug":"ignorance-is-miss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pender.org.uk\/index.php\/2014\/01\/ignorance-is-miss\/","title":{"rendered":"Ignorance is miss"},"content":{"rendered":"
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If you ignore criticism, you will end in poverty and disgrace; if you accept correction, you will be honoured.
\nProverbs 13:18 NLT<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Whenever I discover by myself that I am doing something wrong or the wrong way, I correct it. I simply treat it as an adjustment to my ways. However, when someone else points it out I often treat it as a criticism. In fact, I am more likely to treat it as an attack and I go on the defensive, and sometimes the offensive! Yet, if I discovered the same point myself I would treat it as part of a learning process.<\/p>\n

I need to be more ready to accept criticism, whether it is valid or not. There might be something valuable that I miss if I don’t and all that I’m doing is harming myself and possibly hurting someone else too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you ignore criticism, you will end in poverty and disgrace; if you accept correction, you will be honoured. Proverbs 13:18 NLT Whenever I discover by myself that I am doing something wrong or the wrong way, I correct it. I simply treat it as an adjustment to my ways. 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