{"id":3707,"date":"2014-01-05T20:23:44","date_gmt":"2014-01-05T19:23:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pender.org.uk\/?p=3707"},"modified":"2018-01-27T21:56:42","modified_gmt":"2018-01-27T20:56:42","slug":"ever-so-humble","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pender.org.uk\/index.php\/2014\/01\/ever-so-humble\/","title":{"rendered":"Ever so humble"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u201cStop acting so proud and haughty! Don\u2019t speak with such arrogance! For the Lord is a God who knows what you have done; he will judge your actions.
\n1 Samuel 2:3 NLT<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

When the New Year honours list was announced, I found it odd that so many of the people who had been honoured day how humbled they were. How can that be? It seems such a contradiction in terms. How can anyone feel humbled to be honoured?<\/p>\n

A lot of people have honoured me by saying how good I am at something or other. The problem is that I am included in the list of people who have honoured me! I like praise. I like to hear how “good” I am. I often think that I actually deserve the honour – I’m proud of my achievements. I know I’m not good at everything – there are things I cannot do – but I’m good at what I can do.<\/p>\n

However, God knows a lot of areas where I’m not good, and his definition of good is not limited to proficiency. He knows what I have done. He will judge me, and when he does I will be humbled. I really have to get a grip of that, and stop looking to be honoured by people. I need to work at being honoured by God. That is the only praise that matters.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cStop acting so proud and haughty! Don\u2019t speak with such arrogance! For the Lord is a God who knows what you have done; he will judge your actions. 1 Samuel 2:3 NLT When the New Year honours list was announced, I found it odd that so many of the people who had been honoured day…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3707","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-christian","category-5","description-off"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pfWaLo-XN","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":3915,"url":"https:\/\/pender.org.uk\/index.php\/2018\/02\/compared-to-others-2\/","url_meta":{"origin":3707,"position":0},"title":"Compared to Others (2)","author":"Robert Pender","date":"22\/02\/2018","format":false,"excerpt":"Hands up anyone who is imperfect \u2026\u2026. 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