{"id":3588,"date":"2013-11-01T17:19:12","date_gmt":"2013-11-01T16:19:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pender.org.uk\/?p=3588"},"modified":"2013-11-01T17:19:12","modified_gmt":"2013-11-01T16:19:12","slug":"to-do-or-not-to-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pender.org.uk\/index.php\/2013\/11\/to-do-or-not-to-do\/","title":{"rendered":"To do, or not to do?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"bible\">So the Israelites examined their food, but they did not consult the Lord.<br \/>Joshua 9:14 NLT\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know how many decisions I make in a day. Some of them are trivial, some more important. To do something, or not, to say something, or not, to go somewhere, or not. Some are made in the flash of a thought, some are made after some or much deliberation.<\/p>\n<p>How many times do I involve God in the decision? I could say &#8220;not enough&#8221; but to be honest the answer is extremely seldom, if at all. Pretty dumb, and a fairly lonely way of living my life. I&#8217;m not saying that I should ask him if I should have a tea or a coffee, but life would be much better and easier if I had a constant relationship with him, if I were constantly aware of and involved with his presence.<\/p>\n<p>When I&#8217;m with Libby we aren&#8217;t constantly talking and I&#8217;m not constantly asking her to help me make a decision, but I am constantly aware of her and enjoying her company. When we have a big decision to make, we make it jointly.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the way I should be with my God &#8211; I should constantly be in touch with him and constantly aware of him. Then the right decisions will flow and the mistakes will ebb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So the Israelites examined their food, but they did not consult the Lord.Joshua 9:14 NLT\u00a0 I don&#8217;t know how many decisions I make in a day. Some of them are trivial, some more important. To do something, or not, to say something, or not, to go somewhere, or not. 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I do not see a lot of contentment in the society in which we\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Christianity&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Christianity","link":"https:\/\/pender.org.uk\/index.php\/category\/christian\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":7072,"url":"https:\/\/pender.org.uk\/index.php\/2022\/09\/just-thinking-what\/","url_meta":{"origin":3588,"position":3},"title":"3 &#8211; Just thinking what?","author":"Robert Pender","date":"30\/09\/2022","format":false,"excerpt":"[vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=\"7073\" img_size=\"full\" alignment=\"center\" style=\"vc_box_shadow_3d\"][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Most of the time, all is calm, then I'm in a bit of a storm. I was never a great fan of big dippers and so I always kept away from them. The trouble with this big dipper is that it comes to get me! 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